Sometimes when you least expect it love happens

I feel like I was always a person who looked for love in all the wrong places. I didn't necessarily want a boyfriend, but I wanted someone to want me I guess. I looked for it everywhere. Unfortunately, I didn't find true love until I stopped looking all together. I found the love of my life on Tinder, on Spring Break, in probably the most unlikely way. Nowadays we do this "talking" thing where you act like you're together and do "couple things," but you aren't actually anything more than glorified friends. This is ridiculous.

Have you noticed that good things happen in your life unexpectedly? Great benefits are gained when you have stopped striving toward a goal, and you are no longer thinking about something that you put great effort into attempting to achieve previously. Your experience is not unusual since good things often come at times when people have forgotten about the need to obtain the things they want. Those aha moments that you experience also materialize when you are busily engaged in an unrelated activity. You might be making your bed or walking your dog when you suddenly know how to solve a problem that has been on your mind in the past. At such a time, having the answer to your dilemma at your fingertips feels surprising, since you have been engrossed in a separate task and had not given a thought to the issue you have just solved. In a similar manner, writers and artists often find that they form their greatest ideas when they are daydreaming.

It happens when you least expect it. But I was always expecting it. And it still happened for me. I met my husband on the street. I had imagined that the right guy would just walk through the doors one day.