FEMDOM DATING: The Submissive Males Guide to Attracting Dominant Women by Slave DragosMost men who seek a Dominant woman strike out – over and over again. Why? The answer is simple. They have competition. LOTS of it! For every truly Dominant woman, there are countless men seeking to connect with her. Most of these men are simply ignored. Many of them even get blocked. This book will explain the reasons why.
As a submissive man, all YOU have to do is be better than the competition. And, ITS NOT DIFFICULT!
The Domme of your dreams IS out there and a Dominant/submissive relationship IS attainable for you! Stand head and shoulders above the other submissive men who are seeking to bow at her feet. You can easily come out on top using the secrets shared in this book.
Using a business-plan approach, Slave Dragos shares the wisdom he has acquired from over 30 years in the BDSM community, both as an active participant, and an event organizer. You will learn how to easily and successfully attract your perfect Domme.
Interwoven in these easy-to-follow instructions, Dragos shares his own personal experiences, as well as stories from the many Dommes he has known and played with over the years.
And, finally, read actual solicitations received by real Dommes from desperate submissive men on BDSM dating websites – the good, the bad, and the very bad – along with Mistress Oasis personal comments about each.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
FOREWORD BY MISTRESS OASIS
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PART I - YOUR SUCCESSFUL FORAY INTO THE REAL BDSM COMMUNITY
CHAPTER 1 - A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE BDSM COMMUNITY
The BDSM Underworld
BDSM Goes Online
Online BDSM Personals
Bunches and Bunches of Munches!
The BDSM Social Juggernaut - FetLife.com
CHAPTER 2 - REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS OF THE BDSM COMMUNITY
CHAPTER 3 - REALITY VS. FANTASY
Is Your Fantasy about Dommes Realistic?
CHAPTER 4 - THE BIG SECRET? UNDERSTANDING WOMEN!
CHAPTER 5 - DONT BE THAT GUY
CHAPTER 6 - ELIMINATING TUNNEL VISION
Balancing Your Needs with Hers
PART II - PREPARING TO LAUNCH
CHAPTER 7 - TRUMPING THE COMPETITION
CHAPTER 8 - ARE YOU AN UNPOLISHED PRODUCT?
Are You Comfortable with Your Submissive Side?
Get Your House In Order
Bringing Home the Bacon
CHAPTER 9 - YOUR BUSINESS PLAN
Listing Your Positive Physical, Intellectual, and Emotional Attributes
PART III - MARKETING
CHAPTER 10 - ONLINE MARKETING
Not Having Any Luck Online? Heres Why...
Your Online Presence
Your Online Profile is Your Brochure
Final Dick Pic Rule – No Exceptions!
Likes, Loves, and Thumbs
Posts, Writings, and Comments
Discussions, Chat Rooms, and Other Public Interactions
CHAPTER 11 - MAKING CONTACT
THE #1 RULE TO WRITING BETTER FIRST CONTACT MESSAGES
The Online Courtship
Keep the Conversation Moving
Moving Toward Your First Meeting
CHAPTER 12 - OFFLINE MARKETING
Entering the Community as a Single Sub-Male
Get Good At Making Friends
Real Events = Real People
Stepping Into Your Local BDSM Community
Bring your A-game: how to date an Alpha female
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Alpha or dominant women become more popular every day. We will speak on the topic of who dominant women are and how to attract them. So, you want a dominant woman. Traditionally women are taught to be submissive and in some areas it can be even problematic to find an alpha woman. Below you will find how to attract an alpha female. The first thing to do in order to attract a dominant woman is finding the one. In order to find a dominant woman, you need to know what character traits to look for in a woman.
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