E.A. Bucchianeris Blog: Books, Babble and Blarney - Blowing Hot and Cold ~ a Classic Fable Misunderstood? - April 09, 2015 02:52Im an artist you know....it is my right to be odd. ~ Brushstrokes of a Gadfly
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Why do men blow hot and cold?
Is there anything more unsettling and frustrating? Something suddenly shifts. Or he shuts down. Or he withdraws. You have no idea where he stands.
If you stick around a man that blows hot and cold, eventually he gets the message that he can do what he likes because you're still there.
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Judging by the amount of interest in emotionally unavailable men, it is clear that most women have had some experience of being with a guy that blows hot and cold. But why do they blow hot and cold? They love the thrill of the chase. Men that turn on the hot and cold tap of attention have limited attention spans. There is no incentive for them to throw all of their energy at you.
I think we have all been there with these men that blow hot and cold. I know I sure have made my share of excuses for these men. He is stressed, he is overloaded at work, he is scared of his feelings and on and on. I mean seriously think about this. When you are crazy about someone, do you really treat them coldly? I mean you, as a person, do you?
It really is as simple as that. He might slow fade or ghost you. Do him and yourself a favor by deleting his number and blocking him first. You can do so much better. He should be committed to you percent if he deserves you.